60 Ideas to Gather Friends in 2026
- Tara McKenna
- 12 minutes ago
- 3 min read

There’s something incredibly satisfying about having plans you actually look forward to. Evenings filled with laughter, walks that turn into long conversations, dinners that feel easy and familiar. Adult friendships can feel this good when we give ourselves reasons to come together.
Whether you’re nurturing long-standing friendships or getting to know new people you’d love to spend more time with, shared experiences are what turn connection into closeness. Time together, laughter, routine, and a few good traditions go a long way.
Busy lives don’t make friendships impossible. They just mean we need easier, more intentional ways to gather.
The good news is that getting people together doesn’t have to be complicated or perfectly planned. A walk, a meal, a creative night, or a recurring ritual can be enough.
This list of ideas to gather friends is meant to make gathering feel fun, doable, and low pressure. Think of it as a menu of excuses to enjoy each other’s company, build momentum, and let friendships grow naturally over time.
If you’re hoping to make new friends, deepen existing ones, or simply bring more connection into your life this year, choose a few ideas that genuinely sound enjoyable to you and return to them again and again.
Here's the List of Ideas to Gather Friends
Cozy, Easy-Effort Ideas
Morning coffee chats
Romcom marathon with snacks
Movie night (at home or out, pick a theme)
Binge watch party night (your fave shows, like Heated Rivalry)
True crime podcast club
Book club
Creative and Hands-on Gatherings
Vision board night
Affirmation or intention card making night
Paint night (studio or at home)
Pottery class (studio or at home)
Friendship bracelet making; jewelry making
Scrapbooking or memory keeping; photoframe decorating
DIY candle making; Candle decorating (e.g., with labels, dried flowers, ribbon, etc.)
Floral arranging (from market or grocery store)
Creative writing night, journaling / reflection night (could include stationery swap)
Mug or wine glass painting night
Lucky charm assembling (could be a keychain, with pre-made charms and chains)
Bath soak or sugar scrub making
Wellness and Movement-based Meetups
Weekday neighborhood walks
Beach walks or local hikes
Walk-and-talk evenings
Pilates classes together
Yoga class followed by matcha date
Barre or spin dates
Stretch and reset evenings
Sauna, hot tub, or spa night at home
Seasonal and Outdoor Outings
Picnic in the park
Beach day
Sunset walks
Farmers market mornings
Patio dinner nights
Backyard dinner party
Outdoor movie night
Food or Drink Gatherings
Soup night or soup swap
Themed potlucks
Baking night (with or without a theme)
Cookie swap
Cake, cupcake, or cookie decorating
Charcuterie night
Wine night or wine club
Cocktail and/or mocktail making night
Monthly brunch tradition
Afternoon tea or high tea
Monthly themed dinner club (rotate hosting)
Progressive dinner party (involves moving from house to house for different, assigned courses, each taking turns to host throughout evening)
Getaways
Girls weekend getaway
Cabin/cottage weekend
Day trip to a nearby town
Winery or brewery outing
Vacation abroad
Holiday-inspired Gatherings
New Year goal setting & habit tracker making
Vision board postcard making (with magazines and glue)
Galentine’s dinner
Pumpkin carving/painting/decorating
Friendsgiving
Gingerbread house decorating
Holiday cookie decorating or cookie swap
Ornament painting/decorating
Wreath making/decorating
End-of-year reflection night (journaling, chatting)
A gentle reminder
Friendships tend to grow when there’s space for them.
When we create regular reasons to gather, time together becomes part of life instead of something that needs constant planning or negotiation. Casual meetups turn into routines. New connections turn into shared stories.
Not every invitation will land, and not every gathering will look the way you imagined. That’s part of the process. The goal isn’t perfect attendance. It’s momentum.
The more you bring people together, the easier it becomes. Familiarity builds comfort. Repetition builds closeness. And friendships start to take on a life of their own.
Whether you’re expanding your circle, strengthening existing friendships, or doing a bit of both, a few simple gathering traditions can change the shape of your social life in meaningful ways.
Pick what sounds fun. Keep it easy. Enjoy the process.
Great friendships are built one shared experience at a time.